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| Problem number 2: the thought that my German is basically close to zero, and that I won't be able to communicate as I would like to makes me go crazy. Apparently, they speak some English, but limited. What will they think, of this random woman who shows up with their son/brother/friend and can't even speak their language? It will be awkward and I am a bit terrified. | |
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Look at this as a client assignment. That might make it easier.. what do you do when you get a new client? you do your homework, find out as much as you can, prepare and expect the worst for the first meeting.
Now, your German is a lot better than you think, just because you fruzzle out by the Swiss German. They might very well be delighted with your language skill. Just be yourself! Honestly, you are such a lovely warm person, just let that come through naturally.
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| Don't panic, just smile, and don't drink too much 
As long as you don't sulk. Or dance on the tables 
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you can dance.. just when the others do!
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| 3: Bring a nice Italian whine. They are more interested in your origins that your current place of work. Chocolate is also a pretty good option. All parents-in-law love chocolate. I could add some semi-light-offensive remark on lack of chocolate 40 years ago, but will leave it out.
But hei, who am I to give advice. I don't call mine "monsters-in-law" for nothing...  | |
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definitely don't whine! but wine is good or some Grappe (I think that is how it spelt) Nice flowers for the sister and mother and if there is grandmother, a bunch for her as well. (make sure your Boo is carrying them) Definitely some sweets or desserts or biscuits for coffee.
Have something to eat beforehand, so you are not hungry, that will settle your nerve a bit..
you will be fine and of course, we will want to hear ALL about it when you come back.. ok?