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Old 29.01.2012, 00:06
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Re: How can my husband adopt my daughter?

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My family had the same situation when my mother remarried when I was 8 years old. Granted we were in the UK and not Switzerland, so I don't know what the laws or regulations are here, but I wanted to take the surname of my newly acquired step-dad so that I didn't have a different name to my Mum and Dad.

The advice as I recall was to either :

1. Have my Mum contact my Father to ask his permission to allow me to be adopted formally by my Step-Dad. As we had no contact for the previous 7 years, that was clearly quite a tricky one!

2. Just change my name. No deed-poll or anything. I was under the age where it apparently mattered and I could just be known by another name.

My folks chose option 2 and thus I was known my surname number 2 from the age of 8 until I got married at 26.

Getting married caused a few issues as I didn't want my birth surname on my marriage certificate and my banns to be read in a name that no one knew, so I changed my name by deed-poll for about £40 and so everything worked out just fine in the end.

So, rest assured, it can be done, but I am sorry that I can't help you with the rules of this country.
In the UK you can just change your name if you so wish with no formality, sadly this does not apply to Switzerland.
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