Hi Mora,
This is the link to the mumbai consulate is http://www.eda.admin.ch/mumbai and i have uploaded the check list for a dependent visa.

We started the application process from India, that is the difference i see between you and me. If you see the check list it categorically says that a personal appearance is mandatory. I guess Kapeed would have proceed his wifes dependent permit last year. I was told that a lot of rules were changed with effect from 01.01.2008.

One thing for certain is you would have to get your marriage certificate legalized by the home ministry. That is mandatory. So you can start that process already because that is going to take some time. You may get that done faster if you know someone in the government

I would also suggest that you call the Mumbai consulate and talk to them regarding your case. Call in the morning from 8:15 to 11 or in the afternoon from 1 - 3. They are quite helpful!

All the best!