Crumbs, I have acknowleged the child, I've signed that I am the father. This document is to receive equel rights regarding decisions of upbringing like religion, education etc. This doesn't exist in the UK for non married couples? I've never heard of it and my friends with kids arn't all married.

My question is really is there an alternative? By signing this, am I relinquishing my rights under European law as a British Citizen? It seems old fashioned to make the distinction based on a religious and traditional institution when we live in an age 'tollerent' of mixed beliefs. (although for cases where the father is irresponsible and selfish it might be necessary). Not all unmarried fathers fit this description however.