Well, with the divorce he will be better financially because I've always been the one working or with a better salary so he will get half of my pensionkasse. Besides that, there is nothing else to share . He has already been "arbeitlos"..he was working for a while but decided to resign the job because he did not like what he was doing and was `'depressed' because of that..Was really great to make such decision with 2 small kids at a day care and only 1 salary...of course he could not stay with the children at home..how could he play in the computer if they would be there???? So, coming back to the topic, unemployement help is 18 mo.