FYI There is a very good brewery in Wädenswil - a hop away (bad pun intended). You can even brew your own beer there if I remember correctly (it was a long night). There is nothing wrong with Stafa of course. I have a friend who has just bought a house there. Bottom line - it's all good anywhere round the lake. But the money in your pocket will be greater in Wollerau. And I imagine if you have the flexibility to live in either places, that could be important. When I think of it, Wollerau also has a decent tennis club (I think Hingis often plays there) and plenty of stables. Being slightly higher up the hill (than Stafa), there will be more snow in winter and probably trickier to get around. With all these places, it will take time to meet like minded people. It's all about joining gyms and taking part in events plus time etc. But everyone faces that - I expect having children helps in this regard. You'll be fine in either place I dare say. Nevertheless, good luck with it!