all i can say is yes, the first weeks you feel like all you are doing is feeding!! but it gets easier
you are also allowed to let them cry a bit when you go to the toilet or something.
just catch up on reading all those novels and forget the housework for a few months
...though there are two books which helped me a LOT

the secrets of a baby whisperer and gina fords contented little baby book
i found them 2 extremes/sides of the same coin

http://www.amazon.com/Secrets-Baby-W.../dp/0345440900

http://www.amazon.com/New-Contented-...5949512&sr=1-1

but most importantly TALK!!! talk about it!!!
having a new baby is bloody hard, especially the new demands on your time. it does get easier!!