LOL (at the 3 countries bit)...

That's not the point I make by saying I am concerned about them..... I would never have them live with me, I don't agree with this & strangely enough, they have never supported me much whilst younger, that doesn't mean I shouldn't want to look for them but there is a cut-off point (apart from them being quite 'difficult').

They are not poor & I did discuss (offer) to find them a nice little lakeside place they could spend the rest of their years whilst renting out the property they own in the UK.