I have had no contact with my divorced parents for 20 years. They were both bad to me as I was result of unwanted pregnancy, cause of their forced marriage and eventual divorce. They held a grudge against me and always treated me like a leper. I had a really horrible childhood thanks to my parents. My biggest fear is that they will try to come back into my life when they need old age help. For me they died long time ago. I was lucky to find a smashing, loving and kind partner who has healed my childhood pain but I will never sacrifice my future for my parents. If they had been loving to me then I would have sacrificed my life for them.