Reading this thread is really painful but it's a good thing that people can be out in the open about such a difficult, confusing and painful subject.

I wish my mum had access to this medium, it would have helped her a lot with the death of two of my sisters. One self harmed and later developed anorexia then bulimia, the other committed suicide.

It's hard to be a bystander in a dearly loved one's life, maybe professional help wont help your daughter but it would certainly help you to cope with the consequences of her problem.

I don't want to paint your world black, what happened to my family probably wont happen to yours but having the support of experienced people could go along way in helping you to deal and cope with your situation.

Heartfelt empathy for you and your's.