Er, yeah! Sounds like boyfriend wants all of the benefits of being married and having an exciting/exotic lover from a foreign land without any of the responsibilities. I am saying that it couldn't be anything else. I am just saying this is typical of the guy who can't live with his wife but still loves her and loves his child. However, now that he is technically single, he can get back into the dating scene.
Doesn't seem like a winner. Situation or boyfriend.
Good luck,
Brian.