Dear DB, i fully agree with you and most fortunately the answer to all your problems, known, unknown and unknown unknowns, are right here on this very forum under your own nose.

You must contact immediately our good friend Tweneer from Italy who recently made a major decision about a job in Germany. I suggest you contact him for the position of your Life Coach. If he can't make you miserable in the space of a few minutes, all is lost and head in the gas oven, hair dryer in the bath tub, razor blades and wrists time is certainly a credible alternative to living !