i would say you'll find boring men wherever you go and that it is up to you to be open-minded enough, and engaged enough to want to mix with interesting people. that said, i went to dublin on a whim years ago and felt that it was home for me! i would love to live there someday.

this isn't helping you so far but if you were a close friend of mine...i would suggest that you try new things. even if you aren't sure, or are scared about doing things that force you to change. you position yourself for adventures you might not have ever known.