My son is 2 years and 4 months. The first thing we did when we moved to Geneva was sign him up for garderie. He attends 3 days a week for 4 hours; a total of approximately 12 hours a week. He LOVES garderie! He is able to be around other kids, play with different toys, sit down and have "tea" with other children. They are even helping with the toilet training. Generally when I pick him up he says "No mommy . . . go home!" ie; leave me alone and go do your own thing.

Now from my perspective, I relish those 12 hours! I can go for a jog, shop, try on clothes, have a cup of coffee, read a book, or even (god forbid) take a nap! Two year olds are a lot of work; keeping them stimualted (no tv in our household), running after them, dealing with tantrums and illness, and whatever else they try to throw at you.

In some ancient village there may have been an extended family of aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings to help you. But this is the 21st century and when family or friends aren't available you must use the resources around you! In my opinion this will help in the end with your sanity and the socialization/ language exposure for your child.