Got the idea from
this topic
I actually asked a lot of men who i know cheated on their girlfriends/wives and thats the answers i got:
- I cheat just because i can.
- Im away for a long time and i have needs
- When you are in a different country it doesnt count
- My wife/girlfriend doesnt want to have sex any more
- I fell in love with someone else but i also love my wife/girlfriend
- My relationship is dead but its too much hassle to break up
I guess when you are "one of the guys" people tell you things

I dont have any answers from women because basically i didnt ask any :P