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| ... he/she makes you feel desirable again
... you married someone who is the perfect societal match but not whom your heart would choose
... you have different sexual needs to the partner or don't dare discuss those needs
... you feel taken for granted
... your partner is overly controlling, so you try to escape
... sex is not just sex but a sort of bargaining tool
So many reasons... not all can be avoided but some definitely could if people stopped assuming things and just talked to each other. | |
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Good post. Cheating doesn't solve problems but sometimes neither does talking to your partner.