Thank you Carlos R

Just to shed light from another angle on what you said.

Men do seek thrills and are hormonal. Some men are good they dont act upon them some do.

Among the ones who do, there are 2 types. Opportunists and the dedicated.

Opportunists, vast majority of ones who do and suffer, are ones who only do it if and when they get an oppotrunity, impulsively when they think they can.. too drunk on a holiday, do the deed and are planning their escape as soon as theyare pulling up their pants.

Dedicated ones are just born with this instinct, they have to do it and they make opportunities and exactly know what they are doing. Its not impulsive but very much pre-planned and executed. Yes they can be perfectly happy with their lives, partners and even their partners can be perfectly happy with them, as long as they dont find out about the dark side of their partners.

But women can often sense such wominsing inclinations in their men, some even try to turn blind eye to them, for various reasons, as long as hes not taking the pizz.