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in my thread I clearly stated what kind of guys I am looking for ( carring, decent, well educated)
And correct me if I wrong, but I never mention that he would be ONLY HAPPY with me, what stated is that he would be happy by not being alone
We have established what you want - but what have you got to give?

If you are not well educated you are unlikely to be able to communicate as equals - anyone entering in to such a relationship is unlikely to be decent. (The Swiss refer to this as being someone on your side of the manure pile).

It is worth remembering that the 36-40+ men who are "carring, decent, well educated" are likely to be married. And even if they were unhappy as a decent person you wouldn't be pursuing them.

You also assume that someone is happier in a relationship than alone - that is not always the case!
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Old 20.03.2015, 15:13
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Re: how to date a swiss men

the reason you're single is becoming clearer
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Re: how to date a swiss men

my guess: you are a part time shrink
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Re: how to date a swiss men

Yeah, today's modern women never really really know what they want.
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Old 20.03.2015, 15:18
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Yeah, today's modern women never really really know what they want.

a woman ONLY wants what she can't have
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Kudos to the OP for picking a username that sounds like the title of a porn film.
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We have established what you want - but what have you got to give?

If you are not well educated you are unlikely to be able to communicate as equals - anyone entering in to such a relationship is unlikely to be decent. (The Swiss refer to this as being someone on your side of the manure pile).

It is worth remembering that the 36-40+ men who are "carring, decent, well educated" are likely to be married. And even if they were unhappy as a decent person you wouldn't be pursuing them.

You also assume that someone is happier in a relationship than alone - that is not always the case!
I see your point, but do I need to introduce here myself ( including my updated CV and copy of graduation certificates ) by being able to get just few lines of information?

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Yeah, today's modern women never really really know what they want.
could not agree more

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I see your point, but do I need to introduce here myself ( including my updated CV and copy of graduation certificates ) by being able to get just few lines of information?

just post up some pics of yourself and the members here will do the rest
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Re: how to date a swiss men

Fully clothed of course.
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I see your point, but do I need to introduce here myself ( including my updated CV and copy of graduation certificates ) by being able to get just few lines of information?
It's Friday and they want to see some pictures of an apparently attractive girl. Was this not obvious for you?
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Old 20.03.2015, 15:27
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Kudos to the OP for picking a username that sounds like the title of a porn film.
What's the story, Dutch glory?
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Re: how to date a swiss men

you can thank me later.

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what do you mean? is it a big deal just to give a good advice? So far it is hard to find a match, especially if you had a sad\ bitter experience with guys, therefore I become very picky. I would rather go for quality, not for quantity


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thank you I will keep that in mind

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Re: how to date a swiss men

Obviously, best not choose an Oasis fan.
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It's Friday and they want to see some pictures of an apparently attractive girl. Was this not obvious for you?
now is getting clear, thanx for the tip
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Old 20.03.2015, 15:42
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in my thread I clearly stated what kind of guys I am looking for ( carring, decent, well educated)

Yes, so you keep saying, but you need to be more specific if you want our help. Carrying what?
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Yes, so you keep saying, but you need to be more specific if you want our help. Carrying what?

I know it's a stupid Friday thread and all but it's obvious she isn't a native English speaker so why mock her mistakes?

I hate speaking French for fear of making mistakes and if someone mocks them it puts my French firmly back in its shell.
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A chip on ones shoulder perhaps.
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I know it's a stupid Friday thread and all but it's obvious she isn't a native English speaker so why mock her mistakes?
That's the reason
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Re: how to date a swiss men

Have you tried www.seitensprung.ch already?

Are you looking to find an "equal"?
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