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It always seemed to be good manners to me to open doors for people with their arms full, or just because someone is behind me. It's just polite, i have no idea what it has to do with being a man, it's about being a decent human being.

Also, why would I wanted a gruff idiot that grunts all the time? The concepts of femininity are masculinity are just gross. Basically, men that think with their penis and vain women. Nobody wants such caricatures in real life. If we really think about it, we want the closest thing to equality and respect. Those are the happy marriages.
Partially you are right but I don't believe that we'll brush gender differences away any time soon nor that it's desirable. One time I was with a group of men and women from different countries and because it was ice on the street one of the women fell down on the ground. To my surprise it was only my partner who rushed to help the poor lady get up, while her husband! mumbled something along the line "they wanted equality didn't they.." (in the sense that she was supposed to get up without any help)..
That's an extreme of course but I don't believe that women will ever like this sort of behaviour.
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Old 04.09.2015, 15:03
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Marriage always ends in either death or divorce.
Why anyone would enter such contract is beyond me...
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Old 04.09.2015, 16:05
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Marriage always ends in either death or divorce.
Why anyone would enter such contract is beyond me...
and life always ends in death.
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Old 04.09.2015, 16:25
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and life always ends in death.
But one doesn't choose life, it gets chosen for you by your parents.
Which bizarrely enough also happened with marriages not so long ago...
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Old 04.09.2015, 17:25
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Thats bullshit, I open doors for men and women alike, really its about manners, good manners. I shouldn't say it, but I will, the Germans and Swiss are not that good mannered towards strangers, friends yes, but out on the street its a dog eat dog world.

One of my Gran's often used proverbs was "manners maketh the man", and it applies equally to women. My Nan was the best
Maybe, but I know many that would disagree with you
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Old 04.09.2015, 20:06
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Have you seen the latest divorce rate figures and how the courts treat men thereafter with regards to division of assets, custody of kids, visitation rights, etc? Who in their right mind would settle down with a woman these days? Logically, it is an awful deal.

Love 'em and leave 'em is the more rational choice and apparently the more successful one since younger women love riding the cock carousel. I understand that this behaviour seems ungentlemanly but I suppose that you have to 'man up' and accept that since you are now on an equal footing with men. Trying to change that through social engineering will cause men to distance themselves further.

Nevertheless, many do make the leap in the name of 'love' so there is hope for you. Good luck!
You seem stuck on the idea of this "cock carousel." But you have not mentioned what the slut-shaming term is for young, single men getting out there having sex with diverse women before settling down. "Ferris wheel of vagina" maybe? "Poosy fun-house"? I assume there is one, right?

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You seem stuck on the idea of this "cock carousel." But you have not mentioned that what the the male-centric slut-shaming term is for young, single men getting out there and having sex with diverse women before setting down. "Ferris wheel of vagina" maybe? "Poosy fun-house"? I assume, of course there is one, right?
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Old 04.09.2015, 20:32
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Marriage always ends in either death or divorce.
Why anyone would enter such contract is beyond me...

someone doesn't understand the difference between correlation and causality...
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Old 04.09.2015, 21:04
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whats wrong with c*nt carousel?
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whats wrong with c*nt carousel?
Seems logical enough. I'm getting old and have to make an effort to keep up with the young folks' lingo. Will add that to my list and try to use it in everyday situations now and again.
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Marriage always ends in either death or divorce.
Why anyone would enter such contract is beyond me...
And an apartment rental contract always ends with you either dying or moving out. Why do people bother to schlep their furniture up the stairs?

Perhaps because they value the comfort it brings in the meantime.
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You seem stuck on the idea of this "cock carousel." But you have not mentioned what the slut-shaming term is for young, single men getting out there having sex with diverse women before settling down. "Ferris wheel of vagina" maybe? "Poosy fun-house"? I assume there is one, right?
Poontang pogo? Slit slamming? This is fun.
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WOW - and I was chastized today for using the word 'hols'
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pussy paradise!

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And an apartment rental contract always ends with you either dying or moving out. Why do people bother to schlep their furniture up the stairs?

Perhaps because they value the comfort it brings in the meantime.
Hum, I should have added a smiley or something to that post to avoid having people taking it too literally...

Anyway I have no problems with life-long commitments, I just don't see the requirement of a marriage contract for that.
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Anyway I have no problems with life-long commitments, I just don't see the requirement of a marriage contract for that.
It provides legal and social benefits that living over the brush generally doesn't offer.
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Hum, I should have added a smiley or something to that post to avoid having people taking it too literally...

Anyway I have no problems with life-long commitments, I just don't see the requirement of a marriage contract for that.
I think the next innovation in mariage contracts is the "Limited Term Mariage Contract". You define a 10years contract will all the terms and conditions including how to split assets, pets and who gets to take care of the kids. If at year 9 of the marriage both parties want to continue then they renew it for another 10years if not they split according to the terms and everyone is happy (except divorce lawyers).
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I think the next innovation in mariage contracts is the "Limited Term Mariage Contract". You define a 10years contract will all the terms and conditions including how to split assets, pets and who gets to take care of the kids. If at year 9 of the marriage both parties want to continue then they renew it for another 10years if not they split according to the terms and everyone is happy (except divorce lawyers).
I can just imagine the EF threads.

"I didn't know it auto-renewed!"

"I missed the cancellation date by 1 day and now stuck with her for another 10 years"
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I can just imagine the EF threads.

"I didn't know it auto-renewed!"

"I missed the cancellation date by 1 day and now stuck with her for another 10 years"


Thank you so much Phil, I laughed so much I spilled my tea!
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"I didn't know it auto-renewed!"

"I missed the cancellation date by 1 day and now stuck with her for another 10 years"
You just need to find a financially solvent replacement.
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