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Re: Feeling lonely

You mention you met this person online - was it on the site "swissfriends" by any chance? This is a dating website. Not that people can't or don't make friends there, but it is mostly a dating website - despite the name. So if that was what happened, it's possible that you misunderstood her intentions, or she misunderstood yours.

Either way, I do not think I would ever take two days off work to meet someone who only lives 10 minutes from my house. Either we can compare our schedules and go for coffee sometime when neither of us is working, or we just leave it as an online thing. So that was a bit weird of her, even before anything else. It's OK though, the internet is full of weird people, you just happened to meet one. Or rather, you happened to almost-meet-but-then-not-meet one. It's OK, life goes on.
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Old 28.10.2015, 23:09
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It's OK though, the internet is full of weird people, you just happen to be one.
Fixed that for you.
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Old 28.10.2015, 23:15
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You mention you met this person online - was it on the site "swissfriends" by any chance? This is a dating website. Not that people can't or don't make friends there, but it is mostly a dating website - despite the name. So if that was what happened, it's possible that you misunderstood her intentions, or she misunderstood yours.

Either way, I do not think I would ever take two days off work to meet someone who only lives 10 minutes from my house. Either we can compare our schedules and go for coffee sometime when neither of us is working, or we just leave it as an online thing. So that was a bit weird of her, even before anything else. It's OK though, the internet is full of weird people, you just happened to meet one. Or rather, you happened to almost-meet-but-then-not-meet one. It's OK, life goes on.
Nop it was not on that site. She took 2 days because we were talking for past 3 months non stop. And yes there was some feelings involved from mine and her side since im not on good spot with my "girlfriend" right now. We just wanted to meet and spend all day talking and she would show me Zurich city since she grow up there. But then she just stoped talking to me. And now i feel lonely since she was my "friend", she was my shelter when i would feel bad. And now i feel loney because i dont have that anymore. I really dont know why would someone share all their privat informations with you and then stop it all. It sucks.
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Re: Feeling lonely

Go to expat events, they are full of people new to Switzerland who speak English. Then if you still can't make a friend you'll at least know what the reason is.
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Old 28.10.2015, 23:21
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Go to expat events, they are full of people new to Switzerland who speak English. Then if you still can't make a friend you'll at least know what the reason is.
I can, im very open person but just didnt got any chance yet to meet someone.
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Re: Feeling lonely

Hold on .. You're all girls? You, girlfriend, online friend who disappeared?

Way too complicated to work.. that explains it
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Christmas is coming?
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Hold on .. You're all girls? You, girlfriend, online friend who disappeared?

Way too complicated to work.. that explains it
Yes i am a girl who has a girlfriend and i was chating with friend who is also a girl online. lol
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Old 28.10.2015, 23:36
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She took 2 days because we were talking for past 3 months non stop.
Kneel before my multi-quoting prowess.

You've done virtually nothing on this forum but start threads about this random girl you're freakily obsessed with. On the off-chance she's not just a figment of your wavering and inconsistent imagination, she did the right thing in blocking you.
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Old 28.10.2015, 23:37
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Yes i am a girl who has a girlfriend and i was chating with friend who is also a girl online. lol
Well I'm a guy who has a wife .. So I'm an expert in these things..

Anything involving multiple ladies with different status is complicated. You need male friends to do fun things with, coffee, beer, bungee jumping etc.. Things are more simple then.
Once you've established fun times then think about these other complicated things .


Ps .. Do you have pictures ? Of any of your group?
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Kneel before my multi-quoting prowess.

You've done virtually nothing on this forum but start threads about this random girl you're freakily obsessed with. On the off-chance she's not just a figment of your wavering and inconsistent imagination, she did the right thing in blocking you.
What the f is wrong with you? If you dont have anything normal to say then shut the f up. You are shitting on everyone on here that opens some thread. Why would i be opsessed with her, i just said i dont understand why some women tend to do that with no reason. If i was opsessed with her then i would meet her already
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Well I'm a guy who has a wife .. So I'm an expert in these things..

Anything involving multiple ladies with different status is complicated. You need male friends to do fun things with, coffee, beer, bungee jumping etc.. Things are more simple then.
Once you've established fun times then think about these other complicated things .
Yes i totaly agree with you. I always had guys friends.
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Old 28.10.2015, 23:41
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Re: Feeling lonely

FrankSinatra, as said already by me and 3Wishes as a mod, please use the multiquote function rather than posting so many successive replies.
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Old 28.10.2015, 23:45
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Well dud she didnt play you. I would not be so disapointed if she was not so pushy to meet with me. I was sorry for her because she took 2 days free from work to meet me. And then i had some family situtation and i told her i cant meet her until 2 week from then. I feelt she was disapointed but she said its okay. Then she stoped talking to me, I messaged her week after that and no response, also today because its more than month now since we talked last time. I asked why is she so rude because i have done nothing to her. Again no response and then she blocked me on whatsapp. But i would not care so much about it if she doesnt live 10 min from me. If we bump on each other it will be awkward and stupid.
She obviously thought you were from a different planet.

(to put it diplomatically)

BTDT.

My wife is somewhere in between.

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She obviously thought you were from a different planet.

(to put it diplomatically)

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I dont even know what that means lol
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Old 29.10.2015, 00:03
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Hm just wanted to share how I feel so lonely. I came here 2 months ago, and didnt really make any real friends, someone I can talk to, go for a walk, coffe..just feel so lonely. Maybe im geting i depression. I dont know really how is with other people, do they feel the same.
Try and imagine how it feels after 6 years.
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FrankSinatra, as said already by me and 3Wishes as a mod, please use the multiquote function rather than posting so many successive replies.
no no. please continue to reply to each separately. it is more fun!
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no no. please continue to reply to each separately. it is more fun!
haha so funny lets all laugh
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Old 29.10.2015, 02:15
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Re: Feeling lonely

Nothing nasty will happen to you if you go to the Pub on Saturday. The Rugby final will be on. Most pubs all over Switzerland will be full and over flowing with people.

I, myself, may go to a pub on my own. I may bump into people i know or perhaps meet new people. The atmosphere will be festive. No need to feel lonely.

I'm sorry i mistook you for a man.
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Re: Feeling lonely

I think it is hard to admit you're lonely. Two months is no time when you're new somewhere. I agree with the previous poster saying go to classes. Not just German but cooking, a craft, sport or something you're interested in. Look at what goes on locally where you live. Outdoor things are easier to go to than pubs or bars on your own, eg christmas fairs will be coming up soon.
People have their head phones on, faces down etc these days & tend to react like you're a lunatic or pick pocket if you speak to them waiting for the tram or in shops. Maybe look for an online Swiss gay site rather than expressing yourself here on a general site where there will be people who can't relate to your lifestyle to find a bit more compassion. In terms of being an expat, it can take years to actually feel at home & some people never do.
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