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Girl, I don't know where this place you come from is but it sounds an awful lot like the set of Grease.

What you need to realize is that sure, practically everybody starts off their adult life this way, choosing friends based on age and traveling in packs for social security. It's a holdover from being in school.

But unless you plan to end your days being a 94-year-old who only talks to other 93-to-95-year-olds - and who can't go anywhere unless they go too - you are going to have to get past both of those habits at some point.

Get out, meet some people, talk. Repeat again with other people. It's a little intimidating at first but it's not rocket science.

Go on. You got this.
Im half Italian half Croatian, born in Switzerland but grew up in Croatia. And I think we all know how much Balkan close minded is.
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Re: Feeling lonely

why don't you just friend-zone a guy
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Fancy a game of dominoes?
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Fancy a game of dominoes?
How does that work, do you see whose pizza arrives first?
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Fancy a game of dominoes?
My wife beat me at Dominoes last night.

Apparently I must learn that she chooses the toppings.
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Re: Feeling lonely

I could be your friend frank? If the age doesn't bother you? I still don't get why you wouldn't know what to do with a 34 year old. Tell me what you'd do with a 24 year old, I bet I'm still up for it haha
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I could be your friend frank? If the age doesn't bother you? I still don't get why you wouldn't know what to do with a 34 year old. Tell me what you'd do with a 24 year old, I bet I'm still up for it haha
I would tell you what I would do with 24 y girl but im afraid it might be to rude
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I would tell you what I would do with 24 y girl but im afraid it might be to rude
And with this response to someone who genuinely was trying to make an effort with you, this sad little attention-whoring thread really needs to die.
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And with this response to someone who genuinely was trying to make an effort with you, this sad little attention-whoring thread really needs to die.
This is called sarcazam, sorry if you dont know what it is.
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This is called sarcazam, sorry if you dont know what it is.
If you think that is sarcasm then you clearly have no idea what sarcasm is, not to mention why you would even be sarcastic to someone who was seemingly genuinely offering to be your friend in the first place?

It was a sleazy and inappropriate response, and if a guy had said that to or about a girl then he would have been criticised for it... but of course it's cool if a lesbian says it. The only thing apparent from this thread is you're a sympathy-seeker, feeling sorry for yourself, and not really willing to actually do anything about her situation despite receiving a ton of good advice from people who have almost all been in the exact same situation.
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Old 30.10.2015, 08:23
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This is called sarcazam, sorry if you dont know what it is.
Why are you sarcastic towards people who are kind to you?

No wonder you have no friends!
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Why are you sarcastic towards people who are kind to you?

No wonder you have no friends!
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Please
Seriously. Look back through your posts on this thread and take a moment to reflect on why you might be struggling to make friends.
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Seriously. Look back through your posts on this thread and take a moment to reflect on why you might be struggling to make friends.
Listen to me you asshole, no one asked for your opinion. If you want to troll then go troll other people. Its easy to say stuff over your keyboard, but in reality you are smaller than ant.
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Listen to me you asshole, no one asked for your opinion. If you want to troll then go troll other people. Its easy to say stuff over your keyboard, but in reality you are smaller than ant.
See what I mean?
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Listen to me you asshole, no one asked for your opinion. If you want to troll then go troll other people. Its easy to say stuff over your keyboard, but in reality you are smaller than ant.
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See what I mean?

Seems reasonably conclusive.......
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Re: Feeling lonely

111 posts on "oh poor me" .

It's Friday and I can no longer hold back.

Here's a bit of HTFU medicine.

Stop bitchin' and moaning and blaming everyone else & get on with your life. It is, after all, what you make of it. We are not in a 3rd world country where you could be shot, murdered, homeless & a destitute refugee - you have plenty of opportunities. Use them. But whatever you do, for the love of God, any God, just stop moaning about it.

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Duh. It's not sarcasm, it's sarcazam. Don't you know the difference?

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I would tell you what I would do with 24 y girl but im afraid it might be to rude
You might be surprised by what a 34y old would do compared to your 24y old new jack :-)

Don't you know that old chickens make the best soup ?
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