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Very true. The first 6 months are the worst.
That said, I know many trailing spouses, me being one of them, and all are doing ok. Not everyone is working though, so the spectre of living off one salary is very real.
If you are adaptable and willing, for sure at some time you will find work.
However for this couple, there is a 3 month tourist visa limit that will be applied, even though it's very easy to stay here longer illegally.
Personally, I think he should go for it. Come over in the spring or summer, try. 3 months should be long enough to find something, even though it's likely not to be ideal, if it gets a toe hold it may be enough.
The 'two career' couples I know have all made great sacrifices to stay here.