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hello,
Thanks for your information!
it's so nice to know that you are also from Frankfurt.
As English teacher is not that easy for me, because my mother speak is Chinese. .just sent you messenge!

B.R.
Liv

A lot of employers would like fluent Chiense speaker, their's a lot of trading companies in Switzerland, (Zurich & Zug) all busy aiming at the Chinese market be it for imports or exports.

Set up a focused translation company meaning work with banks or insurance or commerce, (Glencore, Xstrata, Transammonia, Nestle, the Pharma compaines in Basel....) look at company websites, see who is doing business with China, ditto, read the financial papers.

With your skills and attitude i really shouldn't worry too much.
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Old 18.03.2010, 08:03
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in the same way as anyone who hasn't been a housewife for the last 3 years. in fact, you might have an advantage in being able to explain your 'unemployment'.
I have been looking for work for more then 18 months; and this is becoming an issue for my job search and me I fear; I have young kids too, and made the decision to spend my afternoons helping look after them, but since my wife doesn't work either... not sure the majority of employers see any work there [for me].
Also in your favour, a lot more women in the workplace, more so in your industry (retail) and a better understanding of the "real" work involved in looking after kids.
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Dear Carlos R:
I don't really see what kind of skills i have obtained during the past three years with kids, which can be used for find a job.
Well, time management and crisis management for starters. Perhaps in your household you handle all the financial affairs so you can add that to to the list. I am sure there is more.

Motherhood is a full time job and higher undervalued.

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Maybe i am too negative, but it's true that i have tried many time, all the applications had non respondence.

I don't know if my CV has problem? or me personal?

life is so hard!

Liv
I think the biggest hurdle young mothers face when appyling for work is the question of what you are going to do when your child is sick and cannot go to daycare. Employers often ask this and you need to have a plan.
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Dear MusicChick,
you are completely right, it is very hard for me to do the first move. the first step is extremly heave than normal. I don't know how to start? where to start? I have no direaction at all. It seems i am out of the world after three years.
During past three years , only concentrated on both kids day and night, never catch up some updated information..Maybe i am too old already, 34.
No, you are definitely not too old, merely lacking in confidence at the moment.

You could try what I did. I was a senior PA in London for many years before moving here and have found it impossible to get a job, mainly due to my lack of German. However, we are soon moving to Malta and I would like to have a part-time job, so I wrote cold to the leading estate agents on the island, explaining that I was inexperienced, but keen and efficient, and that many of my skills were transferable. I was immediately invited for an interview next week. There is no guarantee that I will get it but it is a move in the right direction and has given me a bit more confidence.

The first step is always the hardest. Good luck.
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Old 18.03.2010, 10:28
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Many Swiss employers like it; it shows you care about something and do it properly instead of trying to balance a career with a new born, doing neither particularly well. ...It shows you have your priorities right, it shows you do things properly and you devote yourself to the task in hand.

As an employer, i like this approach.
I think that your view is biased because your wife does not work and you believe that is the only right way. If this were a universal view, then surely the original poster would have been headhunted by now. Also, would not then employers state clearly in vacancy announcements that 'previous experience of staying at home with children is a must'?

I am sorry, but implying that working mothers are neither good workers nor good mothers is fallacious. Just like with any other job, staying at home with children does not automatically translate into effectiveness and ability to focus.

To the OP: You are not too old, you are young and educated and you have a fair chance. At this point you have to believe in this yourself and you have to present your case with honesty and enthusiasm so that you can assure your potential employers that you have sorted out your family life and are now seriously focusing on your professional career. Self-censure does not help. Go ahead, prepare applications for jobs where you think you have a fair chance of getting at least an interview and start from there. Good luck!
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A lot of employers would like fluent Chiense speaker, their's a lot of trading companies in Switzerland, (Zurich & Zug) all busy aiming at the Chinese market be it for imports or exports.

Set up a focused translation company meaning work with banks or insurance or commerce, (Glencore, Xstrata, Transammonia, Nestle, the Pharma compaines in Basel....) look at company websites, see who is doing business with China, ditto, read the financial papers.

With your skills and attitude i really shouldn't worry too much.
it is useful information for me, Thank you very much, Charlie R. Soles!!
I would definitely start search on that direc tion.

have a nice day!

Liv
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No, you are definitely not too old, merely lacking in confidence at the moment.

You could try what I did. I was a senior PA in London for many years before moving here and have found it impossible to get a job, mainly due to my lack of German. However, we are soon moving to Malta and I would like to have a part-time job, so I wrote cold to the leading estate agents on the island, explaining that I was inexperienced, but keen and efficient, and that many of my skills were transferable. I was immediately invited for an interview next week. There is no guarantee that I will get it but it is a move in the right direction and has given me a bit more confidence.

The first step is always the hardest. Good luck.
Dear Nicolaschulz,
thank you for your personal experience. it's true that i have lost of self-confidence when i face the job requirement on Internet and writing application letters.. because i am weak of many facts right now..but i would try to do something.
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Old 18.03.2010, 13:20
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I think that your view is biased because your wife does not work and you believe that is the only right way. If this were a universal view, then surely the original poster would have been headhunted by now. Also, would not then employers state clearly in vacancy announcements that 'previous experience of staying at home with children is a must'?

I am sorry, but implying that working mothers are neither good workers nor good mothers is fallacious. Just like with any other job, staying at home with children does not automatically translate into effectiveness and ability to focus.

To the OP: You are not too old, you are young and educated and you have a fair chance. At this point you have to believe in this yourself and you have to present your case with honesty and enthusiasm so that you can assure your potential employers that you have sorted out your family life and are now seriously focusing on your professional career. Self-censure does not help. Go ahead, prepare applications for jobs where you think you have a fair chance of getting at least an interview and start from there. Good luck!
completely out of family life is kind of good start, i hope i can solve that. But as mother, there is always weakness of how to arrange the time for kids and job, perhaps has conflict..i need slowly handle that.
thank you for your suggestion!
Liv
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global branding Stores, like LV, Chanel, or others..
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my mother speak is Chinese.
Try also watches stores as Chinese are target customers for them now.

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I don't know if my CV has problem? or me personal
CV is a problem, you can be a problem only if you would loose job too often, but not before they even met you.


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Dear Charlie R.Soles: i just hope the next interviw will be made with an employer, who has similar opinion like you. ! Thanks!
Liv
You can make him to think this way, putting this and other advised earlier here on your cover letter or resume.
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completely out of family life is kind of good start, i hope i can solve that. But as mother, there is always weakness of how to arrange the time for kids and job, perhaps has conflict..i need slowly handle that.
thank you for your suggestion!
Liv
After raising kids you will certainly have good negotiation skills, be an expert at dealing with difficult people and find multitasking a doddle.
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Try also watches stores as Chinese are target customers for them now.

CV is a problem, you can be a problem only if you would loose job too often, but not before they even met you.


You can make him to think this way, putting this and other advised earlier here on your cover letter or resume.
Dear Sviz
Thank you for the advice of Watches stores.
I like Retail industry because i have studied that, but i have no work experience from practical point of view.

I will do my best to add some extra inforamtion on Resume.
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Re: I have benn housewife for 3 years, how can I find job again?

Liv

Your skills as a Mother will have added a lot to you as a person.

Sit down and write a list of all the things you have to do. Some have already been mentioned in earlier posts.

Negotiation, planning, care, supervision, dedication, time management, financial management etc.
You should soon realise that this has made you a far more employable person. Don't skip this in your CV. Be proud of it.

While you are looking for employment, get involved in some activities. This could be a local club, voluntary work, training courses or whatever you prefer. This will show that you are filling your time usefully, get you into a work attitude instead of housewife attitude. You will meet new people who may have useful contacts to help you.

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Re: I have benn housewife for 3 years, how can I find job again?

Liv, this is not magic. It is about believing and marketing yourself.

I stopped work for 5 years when I had my little one. Eventually, I took a new job - for a bit of time, I was underpaid in regards of my experience and so - but that was quickly outgrown. I restarted work in the US, and was eventually hired here in CH as a local.

I am sure that it will work out Believe in yourself and put yourself out there.
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Dear tititita:
really appreciating for your suggestions, it reminds me that i had learned Retail Management during Bachelor and Master studying..actually work in Retail industry was my dream, specially those global branding Stores, like LV, Chanel, or others...unluckly i always worked in IT area, seems a little bit far away from Retailing area.. But now i would like to try to search that area without any specific retail work experiences..i hope i will have good luck!

Liv
Liv
give a try you never know,
until you try,go for it
i m certain you will find something great
take care.
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Re: I have benn housewife for 3 years, how can I find job again?

My wife has started employment after many years of being a housewife. You may have to lower your sights, initially, but once you get back into the world of work, it's easier to find another job.
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