Hi mike1. Reading your post makes me both share your pain and wanting to pull my hair out at the same time.
I've lived in Australia for a significant part of my life and got a good idea how the education system works there. I am also only a few months away from being a teacher in the Swiss gymnasium system myself.
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| We come from Australia where it is common to have distance education. This is not exactly like homeschooling because its a proper registered school with a teacher and curriculum managed by the state. We were able to keep up with it fine while he was in kindergarten (because thats only 3-4 hours per day) but its hard with him in grade 1. | |
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Some of the things you say I completely agree. Home-schooling or distance schooling are nearly unheard of here and somewhat frowned upon. While I think it's generally a good idea for kids to go to school for various reasons (social, teaching methods, special subject content etc) I do think in some cases alternative schooling methods can be asked for and sometimes the schooling system here could really do with so a bit more flexibility. I have however seen some shocking cases of home- and distance education first hand (in Australia) where some kids future opportunities have become severely diminished by the (rather ignorant) wishes of their parents, which really makes me cringe.
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| He and us have no interest in learning german...
It seems ridiculous to me that on the one hand the canton does not provide adequate or appropriate education (for expats) here... | |
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Some of your statements on the other hand make me think that its probably time you get off your cloud and join us lot down here in the real world. Are you seriously asking for a government to provide a full education curriculum in a whole range of foreign languages? How many (government) primary schools in Australia offer schooling in German? Or French? How many primary school teachers even speak a foreign language? Get real...
The attitude of "we don't want to learn the language and neither should our kid" is not going to make you many friends. Nor should it. Regardless of the fact whether you stay here long-term or not, giving your child the opportunity to learn a foreign language may be the best thing for his long-term learning abilities. Swiss government will even pay it for you. By specialist teachers in small groups or even one-to-one if necessary. Not only have foreign languages been shown to hugely help people learn more about languages or other foreign languages later in life - they are also your gate to a whole new culture, world of ideas and not least a range of new job opportunities.
If you insist on not learning the language then send your kid to an international school. But please stop complaining about the system then if you're completely unwilling to take part of it.
One of the great things about our system is that it is far more flexible and individual than that of most countries. However, you will need to show some initiative and be prepared to work with your teachers, not against them. As said, the solution is out there.
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| - I heard that if you just dont turn up to school you get fined? How much is this fine? is it just the cost of doing business in Switzerland or does it make it uneconomical? | |
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Lastly, the refusal to send your kid to school will be taken VERY seriously. If it happens once or accidentally or by a misunderstanding you might get away with a fine of a couple of hundred francs or so. If you are found to refuse to send your kid to school despite being told otherwise you can face a fine of several thousand francs and court cost on top of it. Chances are that by then the teachers / principle / other parents may also not take you too seriously anymore or be prepared to make some compromises.
So for your and your teachers sake I'd recommend you show some flexibility and be prepared let your kid learn the language. It could be a huge get to a new world and culture for him/her. If there are other (social) issues at the school or with the kids, you could ask if a change of school might be possible.