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First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

I had my 1st antenatal appoinment yesterday with gync in oerlikon...she told i might be in my 6th week and when she did v-u/s she told she dont see anything :-((( she didnt give any advice,takecares or anything ( i am nt sure if this is how it is here :-())))

Actually point is, i am phobic to all the pregnancy prcedure.....and this gync is nt at all understanding,infact she alwys asks me to go to some psycologist or so :-(((((

What i feel is ,doctors shud know their patient and handle accordingly,i am lookng for a good and understnading frindly gync.!
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Old 18.01.2012, 15:13
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

Find a new doctor or consider seeing a midwife instead. You don't even have to have an 'examination' anyway - not an internal one - it doesn't tell the doctor anything much except 'you are pregnant'...except if they are checking to make sure it's not a 'tubal' pregnancy. Not sure what the doctor was looking for, doing an internal ultrasound at 6 weeks - you wouldn't even see a heartbeat at that stage of the pregnancy..

On the other hand, if you are 'phobic', well, the 'specialist' for that is definitely a psychologist...
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Old 18.01.2012, 15:16
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

So sorry to hear you had a bad experience. Pregnancy is definitely a time when you need someone you're comfortable with, and who you feel understands what you're going through.

You said the doctor did a transvaginal ultrasound but didn't see anything? I'm not sure I understand as this suggests a blighted ovum.
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Old 18.01.2012, 15:19
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

First learn how to use spell check. Text speak is annoying.

Then go somewhere else. Your doctor suggests going to a psychologist because you are nervous about what i assume is your first pregnancy and you are still there? Why?

Just make an appointment with someone else
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Old 18.01.2012, 15:22
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Are you absolutely sure you are pregnant? Did you do a pregnancy test at home and it was positive?
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

Yes my Hcg test was 100% positive!!! and infact she first brought some kind of metal tool to examine and i was like what the hell is this!!then with much request she droped that and did internal scan....

I would als really appreciate ,if anyone can recommend ,a good english speaking,gync with bit of tolerance to handle ladies like me....

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Old 18.01.2012, 15:29
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I had my 1st antenatal appoinment yesterday with gync in oerlikon...she told i might be in my 6th week and when she did v-u/s she told she dont see anything :-((( she didnt give any advice,takecares or anything ( i am nt sure if this is how it is here :-())))
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Not sure what the doctor was looking for, doing an internal ultrasound at 6 weeks - you wouldn't even see a heartbeat at that stage of the pregnancy..
You most certainly would see the fertilized egg in an ultrasound.
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

If you are 6 weeks she would have seen the sac with the embryo inside, maybe even with a heartbeat.

Did you do a pee or blood test to confirm pregnancy?

I am sorry you had a bad experience today.

You have a couple of choices, wait about 2 weeks, test again. Find another doctor or as suggested go to a midwife.

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Old 18.01.2012, 15:36
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

I had one of these ultrasounds at 7 weeks and we most certainly picked up a heart beat. I personally felt it was slightly unnecessary, but given that it was during an appointment to organise IVF and given that all previous tests had shown there was a very low possibility of us ever having another baby, even with assistance, I can sort of understand our doctor's eagerness to check this out thoroughly!

My understanding is that from 6 weeks onwards, these ultrasounds do have a certain diagnostic benefit.
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i did a pee test !
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

I have a really good doctor here in Luzern. I went to him for both of my pregnancies and he speaks English. If you want info just PM me.
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

Sorry i forgot to mention i live in zuirch!

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Old 18.01.2012, 16:33
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Sorry i forgot to mention i live in zuirch!
Update your location then - it's currently set to Luzern
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i did a pee test !
Is it possible you have your weeks off? Maybe do another pee test tomorrow morning? If that one is positive go for another u/s in a week, something must be visible by then.
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

I am sure i am preggie as i have all the sympotoms,like morking sickness,uneasiness,getting tires very osoon,vomting senstations etc etc...i am sure ,i think if i go in couple of weeks for a check up thn something shud be UP :-)
in the mean time i need to find out a good gync-help pls!
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Old 18.01.2012, 17:46
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I am sure i am preggie as i have all the sympotoms,like morking sickness,uneasiness,getting tires very osoon,vomting senstations etc etc...i am sure ,i think if i go in couple of weeks for a check up thn something shud be UP :-)
in the mean time i need to find out a good gync-help pls!
Sorry, can't help you with that, but please keep us updated.
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

Looking for English speaking Obstetrician / Gynaecologist in Zurich area

Some suggestions here, on page 5 of this thread you will find the most recent replies
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Old 18.01.2012, 18:10
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Re: First antenatel appointment-experince :-(

At 6 weeks, it's extremely early to tell on a scan if your pregnancy has taken or not. You might need to wait a week or more to be sure.
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Old 18.01.2012, 18:15
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I am sure i am preggie as i have all the sympotoms,like morking sickness,uneasiness,getting tires very osoon,vomting senstations etc etc...i am sure ,i think if i go in couple of weeks for a check up thn something shud be UP :-)
in the mean time i need to find out a good gync-help pls!
Please bear in mind that pregnancy 'symptoms' might also be psychologically induced... When I was trying to get pregnant, each time I was a few days late for my periods I would start to have 'symptoms', as sometimes when you want sthg so much your mind makes you happy by creating it...

It's very unlikely that a pregnancy doesn't show on a vaginal scan at 6 weeks...

Your doc might very well be tactless or plain rude, but might he be right in thinking you need to see a psychologist about some unresolved issue?

I'm not judging you in anyway, just trying to help. Good luck to you.
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