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| In my experiencel here there is a lot of choice about how you want to give birth, but some of the options are limited by how your gynaecologist practices. Mine was in favour of everything except underwater birth.
The "norm " would be a totally natural birth, and it is encouraged- not like some places that want births over and done quickly to fit their staff schedules.
They do not push you into any kind of painkilling techniques. You design your birth plan and your midwife and advises you on your choices. And the baby doesn't have to spend even a second out of your sight if you don't want it. | |
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It really varies from place to place. Ideally, it is what you said, and most of my friends had a good experiences. Some of them, though, myself included, had attrocious one, so one must be careful and not leave oneself solely in hands of the medical staff, trusting them do the best. Because they sometimes ain't doing their best.
The local place I gave birth pushed people through the process very quickly, apparently they were overbooked. No respect to anybody's birth plan, I am not sure they know what it even is. All of the women were only allowed to lay on their backs, I was overdosed on epi, the labor stopped and I had to have a c-section. I was not given my child on my chest, breastfeeding was not encouraged, they took our child away for good couple of scary hours. C-section sucks and the staff was not helping me tend to my newborn right post-op.
I do not want to harp, just warn peeps - check out the hospital ratio of c-sections, epidurals and other interventions, if you can. Ask your hubby to educate himself on possible risks for you or your babe or hire a doula. After I gave birth I found out there is a general dislike for the practices of our local maternity ward by some OBs, which I unfortunately couldn't have known since we just moved in.