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Canceling Mutal agreed divorce [Can't pay divorce settlement]

Hello expert,
We had mutal agreed divorce and according to that I need to pay CHF10,000
before certain date. But, I don't have job and cannot pay that amount plus I have bills to pay and survive. Can the payment be delayed ?

Is that means that the mutal divorce is cancelled and we have to start the divorce again?

Thanks in advance,
Saz
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Hello expert,
We had mutal agreed divorce and according to that I need to pay CHF10,000
before certain date. But, I don't have job and cannot pay that amount plus I have bills to pay and survive. Can the payment be delayed ?

Is that means that the mutal divorce is cancelled and we have to start the divorce again?

Thanks in advance,
Saz


If the divorce is through the court and you have the official document, then it is final. You are now not just an Ex, but also a bad debtor: you need to find an agreement with your Ex. The 10K is just an unpaid bill now, He/She can go to the Betreibungsamt about it. This is not something you want to see happen. They can garnishee whatever income/Pension you have, sieze and auction your assets etc.
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Hello expert,
We had mutal agreed divorce and according to that I need to pay CHF10,000
before certain date. But, I don't have job and cannot pay that amount plus I have bills to pay and survive. Can the payment be delayed ?

Is that means that the mutal divorce is cancelled and we have to start the divorce again?

Thanks in advance,
Saz
How did you allow it to happen where you have to pay 10k with no means to do so and no payment plan?
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Old 01.07.2015, 11:26
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Re: Canceling Mutal agreed divorce

Would it be better for the OP to get a bank loan or would that not be possible?
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Old 01.07.2015, 11:28
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Would it be better for the OP to get a bank loan or would that not be possible?
He has no job, how will he get a loan?

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Re: Canceling Mutal agreed divorce

The OP should go back to Court and ask for a re-payment plan. This should have been done at the divorce - crap lawyers!
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oh and here I was- thinking it was going to be a lovely story of reconciliation...
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oh and here I was- thinking it was going to be a lovely story of reconciliation...
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This is the English Forum, you don't come here to cheer yourself up. Remember?
Well I do.

I get to be reminded just how stupid your average expat can be and how superior I am.

I am pretty sure I'm not the only one either.
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Well I do.

I get to be reminded just how stupid your average expat can be and how superior I am.

I am pretty sure I'm not the only one either.
True that but I must say that the series of cluster f*** posted here in the last few days is really unsurpassable.
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Re: Canceling Mutal agreed divorce [Can't pay divorce settlement]

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Hello expert,
We had mutal agreed divorce and according to that I need to pay CHF10,000
before certain date. But, I don't have job and cannot pay that amount plus I have bills to pay and survive. Can the payment be delayed ?

Is that means that the mutal divorce is cancelled and we have to start the divorce again?

Thanks in advance,
Saz
Ask this kind of question where payment was decided on - at the court or your lawyer's office.
We are not a free legal advice forum.
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Re: Canceling Mutal agreed divorce [Can't pay divorce settlement]

Stats must be down, the local is scraping the barrel
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