Not as scary as the devil who will lord over you if you're not baptised.

Well, Anglicans aren't real Protestants anyways.

P.S. Don't confuse England with UK. I think you'll find more Presbyterians in Scotland. Along with Catholics.

I find it big of him to consider his girlfriend's feeling about it and he is ready to do it for her. Sadly nowadays people are getting too selfish and me me me with the I'll never do that for anyone, bla bla bla. (And they stay alone with their big horse principal...)

In a relationship it is about being able to put the other one first, being able to compromised for something better.

If he does it because it is important for his girlfriend, or her family, so it's all fine. He loves her enough to know he wants to be with her and if this is the only thing in the big picture, big deal!

I was talking about real Churches - therefore excluding any of the break-away brigade who'll do anything to get attention...

<ducks for cover>

Try to find a pastor or priest who will baptize you by a lake on a not too busy day with your gf present.
That'll be discreet and give you a souvenir of something not too church like.

If the personne who baptized you could put it all on a paper, sign it and put a stamp on it that would be great.
If you then have to pay a little something for the admin side of it all that wouldn't be too dramatic wouldn't it.


.. and for those scary dreams ... I nearly laughed ... you must have heard some gruesome stories ... try to keep a cool head about what you're hearing there or probably have seen also.