I am seriously thinking about having a long term relationship with a french girl. We meet each other everyday, talk briefly.


I think she is a good fit for rest of my life. I guess she also has a similar kind of feeling.


But we don't express ourself, as shyness and sometimes, fear of rejection overcomes our feelings.


How to proceed next ?? I am a shy male, do I need to expect her to come forward and propose ??

How is this going is happen ....Help me out !!!

Dude, not from advice received off an internet forum. But if she's the one, don't waste time just ask her.

You`re pretty short on particulars, Firstly I assume you`re in love so cut to the main theme!! How about saying ``I Love You XYZ Will you make me the happiest man in the world and be my wife? GOOD LUCK.... regards kap

seriously.

seriously though...

not by sms, not my email and not over the phone. Just tell her that you might not be the first to love her, but you want to be the last and would she give you that honour and marry you.

speak from the heart and mean it.

viel glück!

people got in crap for asking computer questions, now people are asking how to propose????
what has this got to do with a Swiss forum???
HELLO LOB!!!! knock knock....
come on man... GOOGLE IT!!!

As the others have said just say what is in your heart and mean it. If you truly want to spend the rest of your life with her then go for it, if she is the one for you & feels the same you will get the answer you want.

You are right it has nothing to do with Switzerland so I have moved the thread to off-topic where non-Swiss things can be discussed.

http://www.videojug.com/search/propose

Try that

Gee P. C.s a bit uptight, I didnt know there were specific subjects we weren`t allowed to ask about.. am I missing something here ? not following the rules? any help gladly accepted...regards kap

wow.

This is certainly different from the ...."my other half wants me to move to Switzerland but I'm afraid the Swisss are very unhelpful" thread!!!

Surely the same person couldn't be involved

If she's very very nice....don't bother! One day she will meet me and foget all about you

Talking from experience there, huh!!!!

It all depends on how you want to do it.

You could do a big bang in front of millions kinda proposing or just over a simple dinner. Oh chosing a date where you can easily remember also helps i.e. on new years eve ......... you know who you are

I got my computer related question deleted before it even hit the forum.

May be the sunny weather is making people feel romantic.

You could hire a knight's suit of armour and a white horse.
Maybe parachute in as Elvis?

Or something equally cheesy...

is this a proposal of marriage or do you just want to shift her?

and the naysayers are right that we're not a blind date forum

I'm still a bit confused from this line....do you know her well?? I'm not sure what "meeting everyday" and "talking briefly" means?


(not judging, asking a serious question...I married a guy I knew for 7 weeks, so I know these things CAN happen...I'm curious though b/c it sounds like you aren't already dating at all, but just *hanging*?)

if as Lob says, you want to "shift" her (nice turn of phrase mate), from my experience apply liberal amounts of alcohol ... if you are as ugly as a baboons arse, try & get your hands on some Rohypnol ..

I wish
Never had a proposal...