Hi everyone...

This is a newbie in Zurich just reached on 21st april..

But am feeling bored now coz no one to talk esp dunno how to approaah a swiss girl for frndship...frndship in the sense clean and platonic relationship.as i am having too many frnds in grls and boyz in india where in the evening we use to go for coffee snacks..movie...

here i also want to intermingle with the localites coz to understand the place culture you have to be the part of it..

kindly help me if any one can...

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Conventional wisdom suggests offering to buy a girl a drink.

Richard Feynman famously thinks otherwise: never ever ever buy a woman a drink. It worked for him, but then he was looking for more than platonic...

In the Uk city-centre supermarkets have been identified as a good place to meet the opposite sex. I can't see that working here: engaging Sabine in rivetting and witty conversation while she fights with her fellow customer in the crowded aisle of Migros HB for the last yoghurt on special offer...

You could say something pleasant to them on neutral ground. The worst that can happen is that she think you are a nutter and tells all her mates. However I would stop short of proposing immediately on the basis of a few short conversations though - even if you did talk "every day"...


dave

hi dave thanx a lot for your kind advice but....
if i dont drink and i offer someone the drink will it be feasible ....

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sorry dude couldnt get yur words

I've merged all three. Don't test me, hksingh83 - this ain't a dating forum (but DanielL's single )

ok rockster sure....i will keep your words but plz do help me alos regarding my query

Of course it will be feasible. If she's Swiss she probably only drinks Ice Tea anyway.

Join a club or get yourself membership of a gym or something.

Best of luck

you've been here 5 days and have no Swiss friends.
I've been here 12 years and can count my Swiss friends on one hand. Foreign friends I have many.

What is your real question?

but i am a software proffessional working in CREDIT SUISSE, Scharenmoostrasse. i usually work till 7:00 pm in the eveing ..i dunno have time for gym or any club . as soon as i reach home i just start for evening walk go to some local parks in GLATTBRUGG.i just see lots of local people in the park .dunno how to approach them..whther swiss grls intermingle or like non germa or non swiss guys for friendship or not ..plz do help me with these queries

i dunno have any foreign friends too in zurich ..thst i feel tooo boring

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They will be your starting point, young Glattbrugg-walker...

but where wil i find them ......

secondly these are guys are some of them are grls too

yes, some will be girls. Why do you think the guys go to the pub?

These are the names of pubs and bars.

dave

hi seriously these are the name of the pubs and bars then i cant go coz i dont drink

this means i can ever approach any grl in zurich for frndship ....

you don't drink alcohol. They do serve non-alcoholic drinks you know

As far asI know, you are not legally required to drink alcohol when in a bar! Although in some countries it is frowned upon not to

Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.

dave