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Old 17.11.2010, 18:29
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

I often heard from some girlfriends(in my bachelor days ) that they only really get off () when they've lost they're sense of control. One would think the peak of passion would suffice for that, but I suppose some may require more psychology to lose their sense of control.

Men... don't try to explore this the wrong way.
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Old 17.11.2010, 18:30
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

I think that men can be raped if hey are drunk, just like women. US law would look very unfavourably on a man who took advantage of a woman when she was drunk, so the same should be true for men.

A family member once warned me that a standing pr1ck has no conscience, and unfortunately for some men I think that is true. Many women love to flirt and tease but they have to be very careful to watch out for men who don't take no for an answer.

I found a 1950's book- it was a guide to women for teenage boys. I gave it to my daughter. In it, the boy is advised that No really doesn't mean No and that he must push ahead. I think that those attitudes still prevail.

One of the trickiest areas is rape in marraige
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Old 17.11.2010, 18:37
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I knew some look for it.....emetophilia
Gee! the things I learn on the EF. I wish I hadn't clicked on the link. I should have said 'no, don't go there' but curiosity got the better of me.
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Old 17.11.2010, 18:39
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

For the emetophiliacs out there....

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Old 17.11.2010, 18:44
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

"The cheese never says no" - An immigrant
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Old 17.11.2010, 18:51
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

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Yeah but if a guy doesn't want, something will fail to raise, no?
There are more tools in the kit than just that- recently in the news:

“Somebody is going to eat my ***** or I’m going to cut your ****ing throat.”
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Old 17.11.2010, 19:43
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Yeah but if a guy doesn't want, something will fail to raise, no?
Some chemicals will overcome that hurdle.
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Old 17.11.2010, 20:08
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Yeah but if a guy doesn't want, something will fail to raise, no?
I am surprised no one mentioned the famous female on male rape scene with clint eastwood in "the Rookie" (scene at 0:48)

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Old 17.11.2010, 20:22
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There are more tools in the kit than just that- recently in the news:

“Somebody is going to eat my ***** or I’m going to cut your ****ing throat.”
ahh.. but when the woman was in a precarious position, as is required when said "cat" is being nibbled, surely the men were in a position to relinquish the hold on said knife?
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Old 17.11.2010, 20:50
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ahh.. but when the woman was in a precarious position, as is required when said "cat" is being nibbled, surely the men were in a position to relinquish the hold on said knife?
Or do the male version of a Lorena Bobbit.

I can't find the case, but there was a strange incident when a very obese woman, pinned a small man onto the floor of a bathroom. She was trying to have sex with him. He was not interested and was being suffocated, so he strangled her.

I think that we should all accept that No means No and that we should not say No when we mean Yes. That's the safest rule.
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Old 17.11.2010, 21:26
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ahh.. but when the woman was in a precarious position, as is required when said "cat" is being nibbled, surely the men were in a position to relinquish the hold on said knife?
i'm sure a dexterous woman can pursue both goals without losing....control.
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Old 18.11.2010, 00:29
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Old 18.11.2010, 00:34
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

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For the emetophiliacs out there....

almost pornographic... I nearly jizzed me pants
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

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Louis CK video
I was about to post this.

"You think I'm just gonna rape you on the off chance you're into that s**t?!"

Brilliant.
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Old 18.11.2010, 10:12
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But I admit, some of my "Don't! Stop! Don't! Stop!" have turned into "Don't stop! Don't stop!". So perhaps men can't really be raped by women, can they?
Awwww.... This is nice !!!!!
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Old 18.11.2010, 11:28
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

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What about Rape inside of a relationship? How often some women have to put up with sex when not in the mood, not interested?
If a woman has sex when she's not in the mood, but has agreed to have sex, it's isn't rape.
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Old 18.11.2010, 11:30
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If a woman has sex when she's not in the mood, but has agreed to have sex, it's isn't rape.
Nope, but if she has sex against her will because she isn't in the mood, it is rape.
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Old 18.11.2010, 11:38
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Re: Where is your line? [Rape Awareness]

A little OT, but has anybody seen "The Descent" with Rosario Dawson? This is a very powerful movie about rape and the psychology of rape..
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Nope, but if she has sex against her will because she isn't in the mood, it is rape.
Are you saying that any woman (or man, for that matter) who wasn't in the mood and still took one for the team is actually a victim of rape? I think the courts are about to be overloaded.

Just as "no" means "no", "yes" should also mean "yes", especially to your longterm partner who is probably not a mind reader and has no reason to think otherwise.
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Nope, but if she has sex against her will because she isn't in the mood, it is rape.
So how do prostitutes do this then? I doubt they're always IN THE MOOD FOR IT ...
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