I have been absent for a long few months ...........and i didn't do it to withdraw my help etc from here........
Hubby confessed to an affair on Eastermonday ( out of the blue!!!), i sent him to a hotel for one night to think and he went to the 'floozy' and is staying there ever since.....tho' i am still fighting tooth and nail to get him back ...............obviously my world ( as well as our girls') came crashing down round my ears and i am in a bad place still, BUT......slowly but surely picking up myself as well as the pieces and trying to get back to be as normal as possible which includes being on here again and try to be of help and assistance as i was before.
Hope you still want me and are not miffed at me for being away so long, it was not out of a bad intention!!!
Cheerio
EE aka sylv
I am so sorry to all those who have asked questions via PM, I didn't log in at all ......hope to be able to still answer some of the questions!
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hi sylv,
sorry to hear about this. if you come to ZH we can meet up
of course we still want you around! just a shame it took this incident for you to post again...
Dirty linen for all to see. Easter Monday too. Well I never! Would never have guessed that one. The creep. And you still don't believe he's gone? She made him do it. Must have.
Oh! The poor girls. My, my.
Westenders is a crap program and so is this thread.
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Dirty linen for all to see. Easter Monday too. Well I never! Would never have guessed that one. The creep. And you still don't believe he's gone? She made him do it. Must have.
Oh! The poor girls. My, my.
Westenders is a crap program and so is this thread.
Grow up...!
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Dirty linen for all to see. Easter Monday too. Well I never! Would never have guessed that one. The creep. And you still don't believe he's gone? She made him do it. Must have.
Oh! The poor girls. My, my.
Westenders is a crap program and so is this thread.
How dare you attack a member on here, Eastenders came back to tell people about her situation and how she as had a hard time for the last few months, and even though she is having a hard time at the moment, she still want`s to offer help to other members (which for your information in the past as been very helpful to other members UNLIKE YOU, and all you can do is be insulting
The thread of pointless posts. It should be re-titled. But there is drama here. Can feel it.
If you think the thread is pointless and boring then please do feel free to bugger off and start an interesting thread as an alternative. That way we can all benefit from your all-encompassing wisdom and intellectual scintillating wit.
If you've nothing positive to add just stop posting on this thread.
@OP, sorry to learn of your woes, that sounds like a rotten situation to be in. No one else here on the forum can possibly know how you yourself are feeling and no one here know the full story other than you. That means that none of us are in a position to judge. We can though acknowledge your courage in coming onto the forum to post what must have been a difficult statement to make. Hat's off to you, may you find a solution soon.
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Guys, no more attacking. No more tit for tat groaning.
Later on for deleting my posts. But you need to ask yourself if this is really supposed to be a forum about people ponying up their woes on a public forum - a free for all commentary - or instead a question/ answer forum as I understood it to be.
It's all very well the locals ganging-up on someone whom disagrees with them but they ought to maybe take a good long, hard look at themselves and better understand the reasons why they post up information which is best kept to themselves or in PM.
It gave me a laugh. And I'm happy with that.
Good luck to OP.
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Later on for deleting my posts. But you need to ask yourself if this is really supposed to be a forum about people ponying up their woes on a public forum - a free for all commentary - or instead a question/ answer forum as I understood it to be.
It's all very well the locals ganging-up on someone whom disagrees with them but they ought to maybe take a good long, hard look at themselves and better understand the reasons why they post up information which is best kept to themselves or in PM.
It gave me a laugh. And I'm happy with that.
Good luck to OP.
She was telling people why she had not been on the forum in a while, she's not going to pm everyone she knows on the forum to say why she has not been on in ages.
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Later on for deleting my posts. But you need to ask yourself if this is really supposed to be a forum about people ponying up their woes on a public forum - a free for all commentary - or instead a question/ answer forum as I understood it to be.
It's all very well the locals ganging-up on someone whom disagrees with them but they ought to maybe take a good long, hard look at themselves and better understand the reasons why they post up information which is best kept to themselves or in PM.
Later on for deleting my posts. But you need to ask yourself if this is really supposed to be a forum about people ponying up their woes on a public forum - a free for all commentary - or instead a question/ answer forum as I understood it to be.
It's all very well the locals ganging-up on someone whom disagrees with them but they ought to maybe take a good long, hard look at themselves and better understand the reasons why they post up information which is best kept to themselves or in PM.
It gave me a laugh. And I'm happy with that.
Good luck to OP.
People also come on here for help and advice, alot of members have started threads about there situations asking for advice and help, Eastenders is not the first
Ganging up, not really we just disagree with what you say.
Dirty linen for all to see. Easter Monday too. Well I never! Would never have guessed that one. The creep. And you still don't believe he's gone? She made him do it. Must have.
Oh! The poor girls. My, my.
Westenders is a crap program and so is this thread.
You are not the ex by any chance? In any case I'm pretty sure that with such an attitude you are someone's ex. You sound like you have an axe to grind, otherwise why bother responding to a thread that you think is crap?
Or was it just to hand out groans- go-on hit it that button I know that it makes you feel powerful!
Anyway OP since he left at Easter, I hope that you crucified him good and proper.. Make sure that he does his fair share of minding the kids, while you go out and get your own thing on. A voodoo effigy might help, I used to make them for friends, until I found out that you can actually buy them.
Eastenders, I am so pleased to see you online! I was worried we'd lost you... But we all have our reasons for going offline for a while, I think many of us forget that we ALL actually have lives in the real world and expect to log in and have all the familiar avatars posting answers to our threads whenever we so demand ... erm well I do anyway
I agree with Hoppy (shock of all shocks ) you'll have some anger which you should find a good outlet for... thats my biggest failing, I end up grinding the crap out of my teeth and have massive dental bills to proove that fact. Want to join me in a boxing class?? Might be fun??
Anyway, keep posting, stick with it...
(gritted my teeth not to get suckerd in by a silvertipped troll)
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if you come to ZH we can meet up
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... erm well I do anyway 
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