Well, Welcome to the Forum for a start.
If you read through some of the posts you'll find that you are by no means alone in being lonely or not being able to find a job.
You could start off your EF experience with
this Thread about trailing spouses, as apart from the 'just like my feelings' bit, there are some good idea for connecting with others or just filling the days profitably.
Hope you manage to meet up with others soon.