jah halloooo!!
selling us to the netherlands, I think NOT!
lol
We had political disagreements because in the flemish part everyone needs to learn french, so we speak both flemish and french, but in the south (french speaking) they do not learn flemish, or very little...
In Flemish schools it is standard to learn french...so that's why even I am annoyed by it! :P
And I hereby state That I would never want the flanders to be part of the netherlands and I do not think that I am the only one with this thought

As for an au pair speaking another language then the family, there are families who especially want an au pair who speaks the same language especially when they live in a foreign country, this to maintain the children's mother language...
So the language doesn't matter that much...
I speak Dutch (and flemish), french, english and german, you try to find an au pair family who doesn't speak any of those :P
x Jana
By the way, our chocolate still rules