It is impossible to decide if you are mad without knowing the details
If the job looks like a long term career opportunity you are interested in, move with the family.
If it is only a job to earn money and make some better experiences than being unemployed here... why do you not go alone first. One year is really short and maybe after a few months you know if you want to stay there or rather come back. Moving with everyone over there just to move back in so a short time would not be what you want to do.
If you think the job is a bad compromise that holds you back on finding something better here and you actually want to stay here... do not go.
If there are kids and they go to school, it makes things more complicated.