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| Must say I feel so sad that nowadays couples put themselves under so much stress and strain with expensive weddings - the worst possible game of 'keep up with the Jones'. I've known couples ready to divorce by the time the wedding comes around just because the financial and 'detail' stress is so great. Is this really what it is all about. I really blame the Specialist and Celebrities press for putting the pressure on and pushing young people into getting into huge debt just for the wedding day - no way to make a good start, is it (and not what a marriage is all about).
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We did a pretty good job on our wedding budget. Had an amount in mind and managed to stick to it.
My dress wasn't strictly a wedding gown which worked out fine because I couldn't find anything "bridey" that would suit me, so I found a beautiful evening gown which I loved (and have worn to a posh "do" since then - you can't do that with a bridal gown!) and it was a fraction of the price of a wedding dress.
Many details of our wedding were arranged through people we know so we got "mates rates". Most of these mates came to the wedding so it felt like a bit of a team effort with everyone involved in some way.
The nice thing is that we've been able to return the favour with those friends for their weddings / other gatherings since then.