Is it only ladies who can contribute?
I've got shoulder-length, dark-blonde hair which is quite curly and rather frizzy/flyaway. I always find it tough to get a decent conditioner (particularly because companies often change the formula in the interest of cutting production costs), but currently, I favour Syos shampoo and Pantene Pro-V "Glatt & Seidig" conditioner (both are in Coop and Migros).
After (daily) hair-wash and shower in the morning, I dry gradually with a normal fan pointing at me on low power while I sit at my desk at the computer.
I think either plenty of oily fish in your diet or fish-oil capsules also helps to keep your hair shiny and glossy.
And, of course, we have to talk about skin care: after showering in the morning, while my pores are receptive, I slather on plenty of L'Oreal Revitalift (because I'm worth it...). Really, only skin creams which have some variation of Retinol in them are any good. (If you're buying in Switzerland, Denner have the low, low prices on this cream.)
The end result of all this should look like this (individual results may vary...): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVHMrO-z0Og