Hi there, This is an email I sent to a friend of mine who wanted to know about Thailand. I have just Google Translated this from french to english, so it may sound a little weird, but I am sure it will help you. Feel free to PM me if you need more help / advice
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· Traveling in Thailand is very easy and security is not a problem for women. It is not necessary to go on an organized tour before leaving.
- It costs between 40 and 70 francs a day as a budget for travel simply by doing all the same pleasure. The food is always good is cheap. The guesthouses also, but if you want to stay in hotels with air conditioning and TV, it takes much longer.
· In 3 weeks, you can make a grand tour of the country, enjoying some places like an island or you can ask you for a few days.
· You probably will arrive in Bangkok. BK as much capital does not represent the country. It is a city choking, so do not stay there too long. That is to say. Yes 2-3 days max. There are some things to visit (temples, water market ... etc.) but nothing you can not see other. Guard your time for other destinations. Stay in the neighborhood of backpackers (Ko San Road) to easily organize your bus filled for next destination
· Means of transport is good. There are cheap planes (Bangkok Airways, Air Asia) but I recommend you either take a bus or the "luxury" night train to do big distance. The luxury bus is a big bus but you're lying. For now there are several classes. We traveled 2nd class is was ok. There are also many mini buses which specializes to the tourists. It is OK for small distance of less than say 3-4 hours. But to avoid a long trip. The aircraft is a good idea if you must cross the whole country North-South and if you do not want to do twice the same way.
· Ok, after BK must decide North or South. We know that the North is. It is an area or tourists do not come. There is not much to do and I do not recommend you go if you do not have a specific purpose (as work) and 2-3 weeks of vacation. I do not know what to do between Chian and BK May.
By · cons you should go to Chiang Mai in the north. It is also great but very cultural city with lots of things for tourists. The cuisine is famous, is a "cooking class" is de rigueur.
• Second you should probably return to Bangkok, or take the plane to go to the South. (to Phuket, Satun, or any south)
· Avoid going to Pattaya. It is a place frequented by large German 65ans with their new Asian women 25 years old.
· Prachuap Kiri Khan is interesting because it is the city or the king lives. There are also plenty of seafood you can eat at the beach.
· From Surat Tani, take the holiday to go to one of these islands:
o Ko Samui: The largest and most developed quite expensive. We do not know
o Ko Pha Ngan: L'ile de la fete. We were there and when you do not stay near the port and away from the crowd, is a magical island. We were there remain 4-5 days I think.
o Ko Tao Island to make the plunge.
All these islands are cool, but are developed to max. Except perhaps Ko Pha Ngan. The advantage of this ranking is that the tsunami did not hit and therefore the funds are intact submarine.
· Go towards Phuket. I do not recommend staying in Phuket itself, is a place where European tourists go there in droves. It'sa bit zero, the beach is good but not exceptional. It is also the you can go to the Similan Islands which are beautiful. It is a natural or you can go camping on the beach. If you look at the photos online you will understand why it's unbelievable.
· Krabi on the east coast and tourist development. We did not go but apparently very nice.
· Was told Ko Lanta is a tourist trap. We left rather on Ko Tarutao (a little known south) is we had found paradise. I do not know how the park is after the tsunami. At the time, but had the most beautiful places in Thailand. The islands are some distance from coast, and few tourists go there. Also, people are different. These are sea gypsies who live there.