The 4-wire thing may actually be OK - while the ethernet spec calls for 8 wires, you actually only use 4 of them. At a previous employer, we used to run either two ethernets or one ethernet and one serial over the same 8-wire drop, depending whether we needed two computers or a computer and a serial terminal at the other end. It worked fine until we got over about 75 meters, then it started to have problems.
Of course I don't actually remember _which_ four wires to use, but presumably the internet can tell you that.