I personally am a bit suspicious of those with 'charm' 'appeal' 'confidence' etc. etc.


With enough of those, you really don't need any authenticity, or develop any if you have those skills throughout life.


I see many examples with motivational speakers, life coaches, pyramid scheme success stories, attractive people in general. And the new generation who's resume includes "Aspiring model, actor, photographer, CEO of a cupcake store".


Of course disclaimer, it is subjective, and of course there are many instances where this is not true.