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Old 26.07.2019, 17:10
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Re: Discovered wife cheating what to do?

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Thanks for your kind replies. There are children involved. Will talk to her to see if my suspicions are correct and see what she has to say... tempted to do this on the patio so after I can hand her a set of keys belonging to her friend (who's away and wanted post checking, they live a few doors awa
What do you mean by your “suspicions”? You described calculated, repetitive cheating. And what makes you think she’d even tell you the truth? If she tells you that you’re just being silly and paranoid what are you going to do? Statistically, it’s almost guaranteed this isn’t her first time out of bounds either way.

With this talk about patios, listening, locking her out, etc. you need a reality check. Your marriage as you knew it is over. Who why or how doesn’t really matter. Everything has changed. Every business trip. Every work function. Unless you really shake things up in the next 48 hours, you are looking at a never ending nightmare of soul sapping misery.
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