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Old 30.07.2019, 09:52
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Re: Discovered wife cheating what to do?

Switzerland is a small country so things can come out pretty quickly. Nevertheless, EF was created to help all English speakers in Switzerland and has done so innumerously. The OP asked for help and support and got it so the forum goal was accomplished again. I don't feel the wife was overly-demonized but, moreover the OP's concerns were addressed in mostly an objective way. Divorce happens in almost 50% of marriages which makes the topic extremely relevant.

It would be worse if the children were to find out about their parents' issues by coming across this thread first. I rather doubt it will happen but it does show the need to stay anonymous and provide facts without making it apparent who the OP is.

We're here to help people which also includes helping those with marriage problems. It goes without saying that any thread posted is open to both positive and negative opinions and can lead to a train wreck but we've got great mods to help control the content. Without them, EF wouldn't be here today.
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