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Old 17.01.2020, 22:31
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Re: Divorce lawyer and advice

So although I understand your frustration... do you really feel like custody should not be 50.50? Maybe quickly reading I missed a topic of abuse or something like that but it just sounds like he's lazy and a terrible husband... maybe not the worlds best father either. If he is that lazy and so much about living his best single lazy life why are you worried? You will end up with primary custody anyway because he won't want the child around. Plus he will be forced to become unemployed.

It's possible he will try and claim you here for spousal support which he is entitled to. At which point you can refute he became unemployed recently while being emotionally negligent. The US courts will look at it the same. However, you need to make a decision fast because he could file a separation which will assess your income as stands and push divorce further down the line. At least if you file now, no matter where he cannot claim more... as you will earn more expectedly. His lawyers will tell him to sit on the issue as long as possible so he meets the requirements.
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