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Old 23.05.2020, 19:40
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Re: Child custody divorce

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Dear all,
Me and my husband are both bit Swiss (but EU)
We live here and have one child, almost 15y.
Unfortunetly, Our relationship is not good anymore.
I am thinking about a divorce. The problem is following:
- I am not well intergrated here, I wish I can come back to my country.
I guess my husband will mot agree I do it with Our child.
What is the chance that I could bring my almost 15 y old Son with me ?
I want he finishes private school in my country.
I guess his father will disagree.
I cannot stay in CH, no job, no Real friends, no family support.
Is this possible that my son will be obligated to remain here ?

Many thanks for your advice
What's bit Swiss?

At this age the child will be asked what he wants.
Also, to pull a "child" out of a school system one year before it ends anyway is not a good idea. Private or not.
Let's say, your child will not be able to/want to go to university. What are the educational possibilities for him in a craftman's trade in your home country?
How well does your son speak and write his mother tongue - well enough to just change schooling over night?

You may not have real friends here but your son might?

I think the first thing to do is talk to your son. Not talk him into something, talk to him.
All the best.
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