Thread: child custody
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Old 23.06.2020, 10:38
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Re: child custody

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Sole custody with visitation.

Joint custody can only work if the parents want it to. When there is a difficult parent as in my case she can rock the boat and disturb my life as much as she wants and the system does nothing to protect against it.

Which I’m very tired and weary of. So maybe standing back and letting her get on with it is the best thing to do
I think you're very wise. I think as soon as she finds a partner herself (yes, prepare yourself for that moment too if it didn't come already...) she will warm up to more "equalitarian" arrangements.

Don't forget the system will protect the Swiss parent first and foremost, besides she's the mother and the law does seem to favour mothers.

Time will solve many things that appear very complicated now.