I didn't mean to sound all negative and heavy. It's just it's so competitive here, quite a shock to view a place with forty others and the current tenants there with their children. I did it for a friend once just to get application forms for her... she was past caring what the place was really like and had to work so she couldn't go herself! But I do think that varies a lot. I've never seen those sort of crowds around where we live, just a few couples at most. Don't be afraid to search in areas well outside the centre, the trains are so good here it's easy to get around- and it's tiny as cities go.