I am in finance and insurance, have an MBA through a British University (done distance learning), and degree through local SA university, she is in marketing (has a degree through a local SA university).

Ideally I dont want her to work (neither does she), as we have two little ones... one of 5 months and the other of 2 yrs...

I am prepared to learn German / French, depening on where we end up, but my grasp of languages is not particularly good. I have a fair grasp of Afrikaans, but wouldnt bet the farm on it.