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Re: Please Help!! Anyone Marry a U.S. Citizen??? Your suggestiosn Please!

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......I am tired of this long distance and going back and forth to the U.S. and Switzerland. I want to be able to be with my boyfriend and be able to work and live a "normal" life. Please help! Tell me the easiest solution.
if you marry him the long distance thing is going to continue -

- you "discuss" which country you want to live in,
- then where to have kids,
- then the "grandparents" start nagging you that they never get to see them
- so you spend all your holidays and spare cash going back to the other country
- then you again discuss which country you want to live in
- which language/school system do the kids do their schooling in

the list goes on...

oh, and "normal" is a) relative b) overrated!

I suggest you find a job here and get yourself your own B permit.
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