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It was really nice time when I was with her...we met through a dating site...I never imagined I could have a physical relatioship with some1 on first visit. Still it went good

Things were moving so fast (future plannings, moving in, visiting family) and the most surprising thing is she was the one who was pushing me for every big decision. She was wonderful just like a girl which I dreamed. Sometimes, I felt like I am still dreaming. But no! this was real.

3 weeks and every thing was fine. 1 week back we had a plan for a movie and on the same day there was a job trial day for me. I said her that I am not sure if I can come or not and she was really fine about it. Her answer- "it`s ok baby we`ll go some other time." I gave trial and fortunately was selected. I was happy and called her to share my happiness. I did not find anything special on her words (she was the one who was pushing me for work).

Suddenly, she replied ah ok! am planning to visit my friends place this weekend. I was shocked!!! we both have time for eachother just on weekdays (forgot to mention she lives in Chur and me in Zurich)...and all of sudden this friend??? I replied- " am surprised to listen but if its your wish which will make you happy then enjoy." Thenafter, no mesasge no phonecalls everything just stopped at once. Amazing. isnt it? she limited her calls from 10 / day to 1 and she lied she forgot her charger at home and wont be using her phone much...wow !! what an excuse ... FB??- " ah! am somewhere in village where there is no internet" wow! do you really think am so dumb?

still, Lot of things were going on in my mind I called her a lot but she never answered.Finally, when she received my call she said I gonna talk with you this evening. I was waiting for her call desperately. I waited till 12 in the night still there was no call from her. I just send her a text. Thanx for your call. I then opened facebook and was just about to see her face again, I clicked on her profile.. you guessed it right? relationship status is no more there ...bah! sametime, she called me.. I just asked whats this all about. She said " you still havent noticed" noticed what? "you gonna receive an SMS very soon"

she went with her EX. wow! just wow! I ended up drinking whole bottle of Rum which was lying on my table.
My question is --- Is this a swiss way of breaking heart. Are they so quick in making and breaking relations.I never had encountered such things... I feel so screwed and dont have any idea how long will it take to get these things out of my system.
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She was Swiss, wasn't she?
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I ended up drinking whole bottle of Rum which was lying on my table.
You just drank that rum, din ya?
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Old 13.07.2011, 03:16
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You just drank that rum, din ya?
It felt like I was drinking a painkiller... which will hold it for a while and will give me strength to deal with the situation.
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It felt like I was drinking a painkiller... which will hold it for a while and will give me strength to deal with the situation.
Kleenex, internet porn, a cup of tea and a fresh start in the morning will do you much more good.
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Mind, I must confess to being somewhat surprised to discover that my ex has moved to Chur.

I'm sure I would have heard about it through the grapevine...
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Is this a swiss way of breaking heart. Are they so quick in making and breaking relations.I never had encountered such things... I feel so screwed and dont have any idea how long will it take to get these things out of my system.
I guess this is the first time somebody broke your heart? Dont worry you will get used to it. It happens to the best of us
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Re: It hurts so bad

In all seriousness now-

A few little things.

"I never imagined I could have a physical relatioship with some1 on first visit."
Hmmm....

"Things were moving so fast (future plannings, moving in, visiting family) and the most surprising thing is she was the one who was pushing me for every big decision."
Hmmmmmmmm....

"we both have time for eachother just on weekdays"
guessing you meant weekends here. HmmmHmmmHmmm....


So you met a chick on a dating site, hooked up on the first date, saw each other only on weekends- for three weeks-, and she's already talking moving in and family visits? Dude, you dodged a bullet. Sorry, I know you don't want to hear this in your post-3week-love state, but that chick CRAZY.
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In all seriousness now-

A few little things.

"I never imagined I could have a physical relatioship with some1 on first visit."
Hmmm....

"Things were moving so fast (future plannings, moving in, visiting family) and the most surprising thing is she was the one who was pushing me for every big decision."
Hmmmmmmmm....

"we both have time for eachother just on weekdays"
guessing you meant weekends here. HmmmHmmmHmmm....


So you met a chick on a dating site, hooked up on the first date, saw each other only on weekends- for three weeks-, and she's already talking moving in and family visits? Dude, you dodged a bullet. Sorry, I know you don't want to hear this in your post-3week-love state, but that chick CRAZY.
I felt the same...and on her next message she admitted she just used me to fill up the empty space...great! she might have received phonecalls or something from her EX which turned her mind upside down and chose to dump me. WOW! just WOW!

ah! well, on second week for 5 days I was with her...since I was not working and had enough cash with me, I never worried finding job or something. So 1 week (until I was not broke) I stayed at her place. You can say out of 21 days I was with her +/- 11 days 11 nights.
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yea! she was swiss. Which I should be aware of from now onwards. Liked a girl- ask " hey are you a swiss" yes! why so? ---- Nothing just a wrong number. Tschuss!!
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Kleenex, internet porn, a cup of tea and a fresh start in the morning will do you much more good.
I don`t think it works. Still, I will give it a try.
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yea! she was swiss. Which I should be aware of from now onwards. Liked a girl- ask " hey are you a swiss" yes! why so? ---- Nothing just a wrong number. Tschuss!!
It has nothing to do with being Swiss or otherwise - it's called a fling - a couple of weeks of good sex (I assume it was good) and move on.
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I ended up drinking whole bottle of Rum which was lying on my table.
Somehow I think this one is going to wake up and find he wrote all sorts of stuff all over the place while under the influence...


Sam, hopefully you feel a bottle of rum less severely the next day than many of my friends were prone to do. Otherwise, hopefully your bathroom floor is a lot comfier than mine ever was.
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Re: It hurts so bad

Send her ex a message thanking him for taking her off your hands and suggesting he might want to stop by a clinic at some point.
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