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20.07.2016, 11:11
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts? | Quote: | |  | | | Given white isn't on the list, you actually are preaching intolerance of some others. But that's good intolerance, right? | | | | | Why does white have to be on the list. The list is applicable for white people from Oxford - which is what we all are I'd hope, or if not at least pretend you are. | 
20.07.2016, 12:24
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts?
Oxford... bloody scrubber | 
20.07.2016, 14:10
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts?
I've said this before....
After living in Switzerland for 8 months, I've made far more friends here than I did in the last two years living in Godalming and Datchet. Without exception, my Swiss friends have said that they wish Swiss people were more outgoing, and they don't realise how friendly they are compared with certain areas of the UK.
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12.12.2020, 12:33
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts? | Quote: | |  | | | I have a theory that the Swiss are (relatively-speaking) an unfriendly culture because they are all so busy working and/or grocery-shopping that they simply don't have time for new friends. It seems that life here is so incredibly routine because everyone is forced to do everything at very specific times. (e.g. One cannot shop after work because stores close early, and one cannot shop on Sunday because stores are closed. Hence, one must shop on Saturday when EVERYONE else in CH is shopping. Hence, ridiculously crowded stores. Hence, a bad mood).
I think that we'd see a lot more smiles here if the people were more free and not forced to do everything at specific times.
The best word I have ever found to describe Swiss culture is RIGID. | | | | | I just find your post by searching "grocery-shopping", but I am very impressed by your analysis, very interesting | 
12.12.2020, 12:53
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts?
I wonder if OP has cracked one yet- it was in 2012 | This user would like to thank JackieH for this useful post: | | 
12.12.2020, 13:26
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts?
thats just about it Jack of all Trades. You got the Swiss right!
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12.12.2020, 14:36
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts? | Quote: | |  | | | I just find your post by searching "grocery-shopping", but I am very impressed by your analysis, very interesting  | | | | | lol. My Swiss family doctor once told me that a huge percentage of people in Switzerland are on anti-depressants due to stress, including teenagers.
I have a funny little story about Swiss behavior. A few World Cups ago, my husband and I were at a restaurant where the game was being shown on a television. The game was between Switzerland and a country in Africa (can't remember which one). So the camera panned over the African fans in the stadium, and they were all cheering and dressed silly and super excited and clearly having such a great time. I said to my husband: "Watch, they'll show the Swiss crowd and they'll all just be sitting there expressionless." And lo and behold... that is EXACTLY what happened!  The camera panned over the Swiss fans and they were literally all just sitting there, completely expressionless and unmoving, as though they were in a business meeting or something. It was bizarre.
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12.12.2020, 14:43
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts? | Quote: | |  | | | I have a funny little story about Swiss behavior. A few World Cups ago, my husband and I were at a restaurant where the game was being shown on a television. The game was between Switzerland and a country in Africa (can't remember which one). | | | | | Togo, 2006 in Dortmund.
Btw. I learned that it is pretty easy to crack a coconut. Just take it and smash it a few times on a hard ground, always turning it a little bit. This will losen the flesh and also at one point it will simply crack. One can also use a hammer. How suitable this method is for Swiss people is left for science. However, one should know that you neither kiss a frog but actually throw them to the wall: | Quote: |  | | | Da ward sie erst bitterböse, holte ihn herauf und warf ihn aus allen Kräften wider die Wand: "Nun wirst du Ruhe haben, du garstiger Frosch."
Als er aber herabfiel, war er kein Frosch, sondern ein Königssohn mit schönen und freundlichen Augen. | | | | | Der Froschkönig oder der eiserne Heinrich, as written down by the Brothers Grimm.
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12.12.2020, 14:43
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You do know that neither Zurich or Geneva are 'Swiss' - don't you | This user groans at JackieH for this post: | | 
12.12.2020, 14:51
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts? | Quote: | |  | | | You do know that neither Zurich or Geneva are 'Swiss' - don't you  | | | | | I'm not sure if that's directed toward me, but my Swiss husband has told me that there is a very strong German influence here in the Zurich area (which of course, makes perfect sense and seems rather obvious). I'm not sure what it's like on the French side... in terms of how much it differs, culturally.
But if someone is born in Zurich or Geneva as were their parents and grandparents, etc., what are they if not "Swiss?"
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12.12.2020, 16:14
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts? | Quote: | |  | | | Togo, 2006 in Dortmund.
Btw. I learned that it is pretty easy to crack a coconut. Just take it and smash it a few times on a hard ground, always turning it a little bit. This will losen the flesh and also at one point it will simply crack. One can also use a hammer. How suitable this method is for Swiss people is left for science. | | | | | One doesn't always need a hammer.
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12.12.2020, 18:21
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I was interested to read this resurrected thread. We just accept the fact the Swiss are naturally reserved, but we don't let it bother us and we have managed to make friends with Swiss here via my husband's job. However, with most of the couples we know, one partner is not Swiss so perhaps this makes them more open (same with German couples we know). Pre covid we'd be invited for parties, dinners and BBQs and we entertained people in return so it's such a shame how this past year has turned out.
OH knows a British guy whose wife doesn't like going out beyond going to work because she claims Swiss people stare at her on the trams. I couldn't get to grips with that as she'd worked in London so would have had people staring at her on the tube (and in my 20 years of using the tube it was often assorted weirdos doing the staring  ).
I guess maybe you get out what you put in, being Scottish I'm pretty open and friendly as it's just how we are and OH is a very easy going Londoner.
I joined an ex-pat club as a diversion, but decided not to renew my membership as I really felt out of my comfort zone. It seemed on the one hand they wanted people to join but on the other it was as if newbies weren't particularly welcomed by those who'd been members for some time; the conversation was very dry towards newcomers at the aperos. It just made me decide I'd rather be on my own as with other ex-pats and I'd rather continue being a member of the local Treffpunkt as the people who run it and the locals who volunteer are so welcoming and nice despite our rubbish German
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13.12.2020, 15:06
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts? | Quote: | |  | | | I joined an ex-pat club as a diversion, but decided not to renew my membership as I really felt out of my comfort zone. It seemed on the one hand they wanted people to join but on the other it was as if newbies weren't particularly welcomed by those who'd been members for some time; the conversation was very dry towards newcomers at the aperos. It just made me decide I'd rather be on my own as with other ex-pats and I'd rather continue being a member of the local Treffpunkt as the people who run it and the locals who volunteer are so welcoming and nice despite our rubbish German  | | | | | What I noticed at the meetings, besides that "dryness towards newcomers", is that you can always, always find at least one lost soul like yourself if you look closely. I wouldn't totally dismiss them, but of course those run by the locals, who are confident enough and don't have to prove anything anymore, are a lot nicer. I agree. And I usually felt bad when people complimented my German because I knew it's not even half as good as it could have been. Still working on that. | 
13.12.2020, 15:08
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts?
Coming from New England, I feel totally at home among the Swiss.
Tom
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13.12.2020, 15:13
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| | Re: Are the Swiss really hard to crack like coconuts? | Quote: | |  | | | Coming from New England, I feel totally at home among the Swiss.
Tom | | | | | Same coming from CZ. Although Swiss aren't Czech enough in their discretion, tone-downess, dry humor and poker-faceness
We also do not block the escalators entries/exits but not enough shoppers at the moment, can't tell anymore.
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13.12.2020, 20:30
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I have lived in few countries and Swiss are no better or worse.
On the surface people might appear different with their peculiar national traits but if you scratch the surface then all humans are very similar, just dumb monkeys | The following 2 users would like to thank Talk to you later for this useful post: | |
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